A matchmaker is really a consultant for your dating life, here’s why.
Why would you hire a business consultant? Better yet, what is the purpose of a business consultant? Well, they provide management consulting to help companies increase their performance and efficiency ratings. As professionals, they know how to analyze a business and generate valuable solutions that enrich a brand’s ability to meet their goals. As a business owner, you hire a consultant in order to gain some outside perspective, allowing you more ability to follow your desired plans. The key factor here is “outside perspective.” A matchmaker is a true source of outside perspective. If things weren’t going to plan, why would you sit around continuously failing at trying to figure it out? You wouldn’t. Your business would plummet.
In the dating scene, things might not always be going your way. The thing is, not everyone makes the right decisions when it comes to dating (this seems obvious, but you’d be surprised how many people actually don’t consider that they might just be going down the wrong road, or that it’s their dating habits that are ruining it for themselves). If you would call in a consultant for business, why wouldn’t you call in a consultant when it comes to finding someone to share the rest of your life with? Being happy in your personal life should always be a priority, so don’t underestimate the power of a matchmaker. Here’s how the two go hand-in-hand:
- EXPERTISE IN A SPECIFIC MARKET. A matchmaker knows what they’re doing! Such as Trudy Gilbert, of Elite Matchmaker, they’ve been working for years and have matched hundreds of couples. They’re able to come in with background information you aren’t able to gather on your own.
- IDENTIFY PROBLEMS. You might not know it, but some of your dating habits might be causing you to come off the wrong way, thus leaving you single. A matchmaker analyzes your current situation and targets weak areas, while providing advice to strengthen and sort out any problems that might be holding you back.
- GET THE BALL ROLLING ON CHANGE. A matchmaker helps you sort out your aforementioned “problems” by pointing you in the right direction. They teach you compromise, so you can gain a healthy perspective on future dating.
- THEY DO THE “DIRTY WORK.” While a business consultant will come in and rid a company of unneeded staff, a matchmaker will sort through all the singles for you — saving you time from shifting through potential partners, or also, going on dates with those lacking compatibility.
Known as Australia’s Millionaire Matchmaker, Trudy Gilbert has been featured on Channel 9’s Today Show, Mornings, The Morning Show, A Current Affair, Today Tonight, Sky News, Insight, 2GB, ABC FM and most recently appeared in the top rating The Real Housewives of Melbourne. She also speaks regularly at networking events and has recently published her tell all book on dating 49 Secrets of an Elite Matchmaker.