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Top tips to get him to notice you
When you’re looking for love, sometimes it can be difficult to know what the best way is to get him to notice you. Here are some top tips by Trudy Gilbert, Director and Founder of Elite Introductions.
1. Be comfortable in your own skin
A woman who is comfortable in her skin is very sexy. Being comfortable is not about having a good body, it is about being comfortable with who you are and loving yourself completely.
2. Keep a natural, fresh face
I constantly hear gentlemen say they prefer a natural, fresh faced woman with little make up. It is important to keep your makeup to a minimum. If you feel too bare without makeup, consider getting your lashes and brows tinted, and invest in the right skin care for your face, so your skin always has a healthy glow. That way you can put on a little concealer and lip gloss and you’re ready to go.
3. Wear colours, not all black
Guys love it when a woman is feminine. An easy way to subtly say that you’re a feminine woman is to incorporate some soft colours into your wardrobe. If you keep the colour in the top half it will draw attention to your face and brighten up your outfit. When you’re picking your colours go for softer ones that compliment your eye and skin tone.
4. Eye contact
If you can’t bring yourself to just begin a conversation, a flirty across the room smile is always a fun way to get him to notice you. A quick look and a smile is nice and inviting. That way after you’ve seen him a few times and smiled you or he will feel more comfortable saying hello.
4. Talk to him - build good rapport.
Be open. 99% of men are thrilled when a woman initiates a conversation. Find some other point that you might have in common and have a quick chat. Remember to keep it brief though. You want him to want to find out more!
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